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Near-Synonyms: Like, Love, Enjoy, Prefer

What this session covers

At A2 level, students need to talk about what they like and don't like. But four common verbs — like, love, enjoy, prefer — are not the same. They differ in two ways. First, in strength: 'love' is stronger than 'like'. Second, and more importantly for beginners, in grammar: each verb needs a different structure after it. 'I enjoy play football' is wrong — it must be 'I enjoy playing football'. 'I prefer tea than coffee' is wrong — it must be 'I prefer tea to coffee'. These are among the most common A2 and B1 errors, and they become fixed habits if not taught early. This lesson gives teachers a clear way to teach each verb with its correct pattern, so students do not build bad habits that are hard to break later.

Personal Reflection

Before you start — think honestly about your own teaching and experience.

Q1
When a student says 'I enjoy to swim', how do you explain why 'I enjoy swimming' is correct — without just saying 'that's the rule'?
Q2
Which of these have you seen your students get wrong or avoid using altogether?

Discover the Pattern

Look at the examples. Answer each question before reading the explanation — this is how your students will learn too.

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I like tea. ✓
I like drinking tea. ✓
I like to drink tea. ✓

I enjoy tea. ✓
I enjoy drinking tea. ✓
I enjoy to drink tea. ✗

I love tea. ✓
I love drinking tea. ✓
I love to drink tea. ✓

Look at the three verbs — like, enjoy, love. Two of them can be followed by 'to drink', but one of them cannot. Which one, and why is this important?

'Enjoy' is different from 'like' and 'love'. You can say 'I like tea' or 'I like to drink tea' or 'I like drinking tea' — all three work. You can say 'I love tea' or 'I love to drink tea' or 'I love drinking tea' — all three work. But 'enjoy' cannot be followed by 'to + verb'. 'I enjoy to drink tea' is wrong. 'Enjoy' must be followed by a noun ('I enjoy tea') or by an -ing verb ('I enjoy drinking tea'). This is one of the most common B1 errors. The teaching point: each verb has its own grammar rules, and students must learn them with the verb, not separately.

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Which verb fits best in each sentence?

Sentence A: 'I ________ my family very much.' (like / love)
Sentence B: 'I ________ going to the market on Saturday.' (enjoy / love)
Sentence C: 'I ________ rice ________ bread.' (prefer __ to / prefer __ than)

Sentence A: 'love' is stronger and more natural for family. 'I like my family' is possible but sounds weak and distant. 'I love my family' is the normal way to express the feeling. Sentence B: both 'enjoy' and 'love' work here, but 'enjoy' is the most natural word for pleasant activities ('I enjoy going to the market'). 'Love' is stronger. Sentence C: 'prefer X to Y' is the correct grammar — 'I prefer rice to bread'. 'Prefer X than Y' is a very common error, often copied from other languages. Each sentence shows a different question: (A) strength, (B) choice between close synonyms, (C) correct grammar. All three must be taught together.

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I like tea. (I enjoy tea in general.)
I'd like tea. / I'd like some tea. (I want tea now, please.)

Do you like coffee? (Do you enjoy coffee in general?)
Would you like coffee? / Would you like some coffee? (Do you want coffee now?)

'Like' on its own and 'would like' are very different. The first is about general preference — what you usually enjoy. The second is about what you want right now. Why is this difference important for students?

This is a key politeness and meaning distinction. 'Do you like tea?' is a question about the person's taste in general. 'Would you like tea?' is an offer — a polite way to ask if the person wants tea now. Students who say 'Do you like tea?' when offering tea to a guest cause confusion — the guest may answer 'yes, I like tea' but not know if they are being offered tea now. Similarly, 'I like some water' (wrong) is a common error — students mean 'I would like some water' (= I want some water, please). Teach 'would like' / 'I'd like' as a separate polite expression early.

The Pattern — What You Just Discovered

Like, love, enjoy, and prefer are the four main verbs for talking about what we like. They differ in strength (love is strongest) and in grammar (each verb takes different structures). 'Enjoy' cannot be followed by 'to + verb' — only by a noun or -ing form. 'Prefer X to Y' is the correct pattern — 'prefer X than Y' is wrong. 'I'd like' (= I want now) is different from 'I like' (= I enjoy in general). Teaching these verbs together with their grammar prevents common errors from becoming fixed habits.
Verb Strength Grammar after the verb Example
like Moderate like + noun / like + -ing / like + to + verb I like football. / I like playing football. / I like to play football.
love Strong love + noun / love + -ing / love + to + verb I love music. / I love dancing. / I love to dance.
enjoy Moderate — pleasant activity enjoy + noun / enjoy + -ing (NOT 'to + verb') I enjoy films. / I enjoy watching films. ✗ I enjoy to watch films.
prefer Choice between things prefer + noun + to + noun / prefer + -ing + to + -ing I prefer tea to coffee. / I prefer walking to running.
hate Strong negative — opposite of love hate + noun / hate + -ing / hate + to + verb I hate lies. / I hate lying. / I hate to lie.
'd like (would like) Polite want (right now) 'd like + noun / 'd like + to + verb I'd like some tea, please. / I'd like to ask a question.
Key Contrasts

DISTINCTION 1 — Like vs love: 'Love' is much stronger than 'like'. 'I like my brother' is weak and distant — it sounds almost cold. 'I love my brother' is natural for family. For food and hobbies, both work — 'I like football' / 'I love football' just differ in strength. Teach students to use 'love' for strong feelings, especially about people they are close to.

DISTINCTION 2 — Enjoy is different: 'Enjoy' is followed by a noun ('I enjoy music') or an -ing verb ('I enjoy listening to music'). It CANNOT be followed by 'to + verb' — 'I enjoy to listen' is wrong. This is the single most common error with this verb group. 'Enjoy' also usually needs something to follow it — 'I enjoy' alone sounds incomplete.

DISTINCTION 3 — Prefer X to Y: The correct grammar is 'prefer + thing + to + other thing'. 'I prefer tea to coffee.' 'I prefer walking to running.' Students often say 'prefer X than Y' — this is wrong. 'Than' works with 'more' (I like tea more than coffee), but with 'prefer' the word is 'to'.

DISTINCTION 4 — 'I like' vs 'I'd like': These look similar but mean very different things. 'I like coffee' = I enjoy coffee in general (fact about my taste). 'I'd like coffee' = I want coffee now (polite request). Mixing these up causes confusion and can sound rude. Teach them as two different expressions from the start.

DISTINCTION 5 — Using 'really' to strengthen 'like': 'I really like' is softer than 'I love' and is often more natural. For a friend you like a lot but would not say 'love' about, 'I really like him' is better than 'I love him'. This gives students a middle option between 'like' and 'love'.

Note

The grammar patterns of these four verbs are among the most error-heavy at A2 and B1. Teachers should correct errors firmly but kindly — 'I enjoy to swim' is so common that students often do not hear the error. Write the correct form on the board next to the error. Repeat the pattern: 'enjoy + -ing — always.' The repetition is the teaching. Students will not remember the rule from one correction — they need to hear it many times across many lessons.

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Build a simple three-column board: LIKE / LOVE — followed by noun, -ing, or 'to' + verb. ENJOY — followed by noun or -ing only. PREFER — X to Y. Keep this board up for the whole lesson. Point to it every time a student makes an error. Visual repetition fixes the pattern more than verbal correction.

Common Student Errors

I enjoy to play football after school.
I enjoy playing football after school.
Why'Enjoy' cannot be followed by 'to + verb'. It must be followed by -ing ('playing') or a noun ('football'). This is the single most common error with 'enjoy'.
I prefer rice than bread.
I prefer rice to bread.
Why'Prefer' uses the pattern 'prefer X to Y'. 'Than' is used with comparatives like 'more' or 'better' (I like rice more than bread ✓). With 'prefer', always use 'to'.
Do you like some tea? (as an offer)
Would you like some tea? OR Do you want some tea?
Why'Do you like tea?' asks about general taste. 'Would you like some tea?' is a polite offer. Using 'like' for an offer causes confusion — the guest may not know if they are being offered tea now.
I like my mother very much.
I love my mother very much.
WhyFor close family, 'love' is the natural word. 'I like my mother' sounds cold and distant in English. Students from some language backgrounds may translate directly and choose 'like' — but the feeling is not the same.
I enjoy. (no object)
I enjoy it. / I enjoy playing football. / I really enjoyed the film.
Why'Enjoy' almost always needs something to follow it (a noun, a pronoun, or an -ing verb). 'I enjoy' alone sounds incomplete.

Check Your Understanding — Part 1

Choose the correct word or phrase for each sentence. Think about meaning (strength), grammar (what comes after the verb), and situation (general preference or polite offer).

A student is telling a friend what she likes doing at the weekend.
Pick the most appropriate word:
A child talking about her family: 'I ________ my parents very much.'
Pick the most appropriate word:
A customer ordering in a restaurant: 'I ________ the chicken, please.'
Pick the most appropriate word:
A conversation about drinks: 'I ________ coffee ________ tea. Coffee is too bitter for me.'
Pick the most appropriate word:
A guest visits a friend's house, and the friend offers a drink: '________ a glass of water?'
Pick the most appropriate word:
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Check Your Understanding — Part 2: Why Is It Wrong?

Each sentence has a common error with like, love, enjoy, or prefer. Find the error, write the correct sentence, and explain the rule.

My brother enjoys to watch football on TV every Saturday.
Write the correct sentence:
Explain why it is wrong:
My brother enjoys watching football on TV every Saturday.
'Enjoy' must be followed by a noun or an -ing verb — never by 'to + verb'. 'Enjoys watching' is correct. This is the most common error with 'enjoy'.
I prefer mangoes than oranges.
Write the correct sentence:
Explain why it is wrong:
I prefer mangoes to oranges.
The pattern is 'prefer X to Y'. 'Than' is used with 'more' (I like mangoes more than oranges ✓), but with 'prefer' the correct word is 'to'.
Do you like a cup of tea? (the speaker is offering tea to a visitor)
Write the correct sentence:
Explain why it is wrong:
Would you like a cup of tea?
When offering something to someone now, use 'would you like' not 'do you like'. 'Do you like tea?' asks about general taste; 'Would you like tea?' offers tea now.
I really enjoy.
Write the correct sentence:
Explain why it is wrong:
I really enjoy it. / I really enjoy [something]. (e.g. I really enjoy dancing.)
'Enjoy' almost always needs something to follow it — a noun, a pronoun, or an -ing verb. 'I enjoy' alone is incomplete. Always teach 'enjoy + something'.

Classroom Teaching Sequence

Use this sequence directly in class — guided discovery, no textbook needed. Tap each step to mark it done.

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STEP 1 — A scale from like to love (5 min): Draw a line on the board. At one end write 'like a little'. In the middle write 'like'. Then 'really like'. Then 'love'. Students suggest things they feel each way about — 'I like rice'; 'I really like mangoes'; 'I love my family'. Establish that 'like' and 'love' are on a scale of strength.

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STEP 2 — The enjoy trap (7 min): Write three sentences on the board: 'I enjoy football.' ✓ / 'I enjoy playing football.' ✓ / 'I enjoy to play football.' ✗ Ask students to repeat the rule: 'enjoy + noun' or 'enjoy + -ing'. Never 'enjoy + to'. Drill with five more examples: enjoy music, enjoy cooking, enjoy reading, enjoy the lesson, enjoy my holiday. Students repeat until the pattern is automatic.

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STEP 3 — Prefer X to Y (5 min): Write the pattern on the board: 'I prefer ________ to ________.' Give examples: 'I prefer tea to coffee' / 'I prefer rice to bread' / 'I prefer walking to running'. Warn: not 'than'. Have students produce five true sentences about their own preferences using the pattern. Correct any 'than' errors immediately.

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STEP 4 — Like vs would like (4 min): Write two sentences: 'Do you like tea?' (= question about general taste) and 'Would you like some tea?' (= offer). Act out both in a role-play: host offering tea to visitor. Students practise 'Would you like...?' as an offer and 'I'd like...' as a polite request.

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STEP 5 — Talk about yourself (4 min): Each student produces three true sentences using three different verbs from the set: one with 'like' or 'love', one with 'enjoy + -ing', and one with 'prefer X to Y'. Share in pairs. Partner checks: is the grammar correct? Is the verb choice natural?

Ready-to-Use Classroom Materials

Use directly in class — copy, adapt, or read aloud. No printing needed.

1 Verb + grammar chart on the board (reference)
Keep this simple chart on the board for the whole lesson — and leave it up for several lessons. Point to it every time a student makes an error. Visual repetition is the teaching.
Example sentences
LIKE / LOVE — + noun / + -ing / + to + verb (all three work)
ENJOY — + noun / + -ing (NOT + to + verb)
PREFER — X + to + Y
'D LIKE — + noun / + to + verb (polite want)
2 Preference circle (oral, class activity)
Students sit or stand in a circle. The first student says one thing they like using any of the four verbs correctly. The next student repeats what the first said and adds their own. Continue around the circle. Errors are corrected immediately by the class.
Example sentences
'I love mangoes.' → 'She loves mangoes. I enjoy swimming.' → 'She loves mangoes, she enjoys swimming. I prefer rice to bread.' → continue…
3 Offering game — 'Would you like…?' (role-play)
In pairs, one student is the host, the other the guest. The host offers three things using 'Would you like…?' ('Would you like some tea?' / 'Would you like a biscuit?' / 'Would you like to sit here?'). The guest accepts or declines politely. Swap roles. This drills the polite-want pattern in a realistic context.
Example sentences
Host: 'Would you like some tea?' Guest: 'Yes please, I'd like some tea.' / 'No thank you, I don't like tea.' (both answers are correct — notice the difference)

Plan Your Next Steps

For each strategy, choose the option that best describes where you are now.

Build the negative side of the scale: dislike (mild), don't like (neutral), hate (strong). Each has its own grammar (I hate + noun / -ing / to + verb — like 'love').
Teach question forms of these verbs: 'Do you like…?' / 'Do you enjoy…?' / 'What do you prefer, X or Y?' / 'Would you like…?' These are daily-life questions that students need for real conversation.
Extend to other preference verbs: 'I can't stand…' (strong dislike), 'I don't mind…' (neutral or mild positive), 'I'm keen on…' (informal positive). These add range for B1-level students.
Teach adverbs that modify the verbs: 'really like', 'absolutely love', 'quite like', 'don't really enjoy'. These add shades of strength between the basic levels.
Ask students to write one sentence a day using one of these verbs about something in their real life. After a week, check their sentences for grammar accuracy and natural verb choice.
What is the one change you will make next time you teach this vocabulary?

Key Takeaways

1 Like, love, enjoy, and prefer are close in meaning but different in strength and grammar. 'Like' is neutral; 'love' is strong; 'enjoy' is for pleasant activities; 'prefer' is for choosing one thing over another.
2 The most common grammar error is 'enjoy to + verb'. 'Enjoy' must be followed by a noun ('I enjoy music') or -ing ('I enjoy swimming'), never 'to + verb'.
3 'Prefer X to Y' is the correct pattern. 'Prefer X than Y' is wrong and is a very common error copied from other languages.
4 'I like' (general taste) and 'I'd like' (polite want right now) are different expressions. Using 'like' to offer something ('Do you like tea?' when offering) causes confusion and can sound rude.
5 Teaching these verbs means teaching their grammar at the same time. A student who knows the meaning of 'enjoy' but uses it with 'to + verb' has not really learned the word.